No Livnlearn, it was a valid concern/point. He hasn't given me any answers that make sense about the manner in which he left. He said that he called an old gf, but did not date anyone or have sex with anyone, but I just dont know..... there are just little things that cause me to mistrust him, and I feel that I can talk about it, and he reassures me, but I still don't trust the answers. "Dragonflie, from your posts I get the feeling that your H 'demands' total honesty from you, but is not so keen to be equally open with you. Just my feeling. Maybe you should call him on that?" He insists he is totally honest. His answers as to his motivation on things... the "why" questions" .... are not something I could argue with, even though I don't believe it's the whole truth sometimes.
I think perhaps we are both holding back on putting the checking accounts back together and car insurance , etc to see how things work out. I guess maybe we are both testing things out, although he says he is here forever (heard that before) and not ever leaving again.
"Being at peace with yourself is a direct result of finding peace with God."
And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Phillipians 4:7
