Well, too late. I had already packed the kid's bags earlier this morning (so I didn't change anything.) and all I did was throw their coats on their bags and I left. I had an appt with another D lawyer and so I left my mom with the kids to hand them over to H. I totally thought this was inappropriate and too soon for him to be doing it but I knew it would just end up in a fight so I said nothing.

I just now am reading what you've said and I did text H that I thought it was inappropriate and I was concerned but his phone is probably out of service because I called and it went straight to VM.

I am so clueless as to how to handle these types of situations. I feel like everything I do, I do the wrong thing.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.