Crap Peter! Sorry this is unfolding for you the way it is. My best advice is to work with your L on strategies for how to best address the alimony. If you get shared custody, perhaps that would have some influence? Also, wouldn't your W's A's have some bearing on matters as it relates to alimony? If not, that is too bad because it sure seems like it should!
Is there any way you can go to the process servers office and intercept the summons? May be worth looking into. I know I wouldn't want a process server showing up at my work either!
How are the kids doing?
Hang in there!
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Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
