Quote: Change is constant. Or, at least, it should be, otherwise things in the relationship get pretty stagnant. Takes as back to a place that's similar to where things may have went bad in the first place. I think that it's key that we, as the "solution-oriented" one's in the relationship, take the lead in what direction these changes occur.
Amen! I DO NOT want to go back "where things went bad" in the first place...ever...I have to keep remembering this, too. Keep focused on moving forward and time to start setting goals.