JJ,

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Change is constant. Or, at least, it should be, otherwise things in the relationship get pretty stagnant. Takes as back to a place that's similar to where things may have went bad in the first place. I think that it's key that we, as the "solution-oriented" one's in the relationship, take the lead in what direction these changes occur.





Amen! I DO NOT want to go back "where things went bad" in the first place...ever...I have to keep remembering this, too. Keep focused on moving forward and time to start setting goals.

Cathy