W called be upset today b/c her mom called to talk about sitch. Backstory here is that I (mistakenly as I see it now) involved my ILs when I had noone else to turn to...I was looking for advice weeks ago on how to handle things that my W was saying/doing and turned to my ILs. Now, my W and MIL's relationship has almost completely deteriorated and W blames me. All of her anger is fixated on what I did by involving them.
To the vets out there who may have made a similar mistake....did you S forgive you? Did they see through what you did and learned to forgive? I see it was a mistake involving them and hope my W can get past this. Again, still early in my roller coaster ride (about 4-5 weeks since my D-day), but she's completed against even discussing our R or M at this point because of her hostility towards me.
