Ben, thanks for the encouragement. Things are going very well, thanks! We are what I think piecing our R back together now. we are doing the daily dialogue and keeping up with the post-session schedule. Getting her to Retrouvaille was the best thing I could have done, because she is actually trying to work with me now!
We are not where I'd like to be, but I have hope we will soon! I have decided to trust her and she knows that so that and the dialogue is benefiting us. It really is like we're almost starting over again. I am trying to just be as kind as positive as i can towards her and I think her faith in God is carrying her into working with me to restore our M. She has made many small changes in her attitude in the past 2 weeks since we went. It's been powerful to say the least.
Taking it day by day, but just keeping busy so haven't posted much due to it going well and I want to keep that momentum.
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!