I feel as though there are some definite challenges we face once a reconcilliation has occured that don't get adressd directly through any forum.
There are issues, challenges and problems that are not faced by those who are just beginning this process or who are on their way through divorce.
I know personally I find it hard to read threads from newcomer's as I get confused and caught up in their pain and regress somewhat in thinking how this might apply to my situation and find myself often times second guessing my self and then regressing into negative thinking....
"Separated now what"...is also not quite as far along as piecing and seems to be more in line with learning Db steps...
"Pieceing" gets you to reconcilliation but then what....
What do you do when you are reconcilled but still feeling some confusion and pain...and uncertainty....and you still need support and ideas, fedback and a place to air your uncertainty....
So in the attempt to bridge a gap...I am starting this post.....
Reconcilliation
It's scary, and thrilling and can be as much of a roller coaster as any other part of the relationship...it's really the part where the true work begins....putting into action what you've learned....starting to blossom and open up abpout yourself to another the person....the person you love and fear the most.
I hope someone else will come here and talk about their fears and concerns and about what is working for them....
A positive , safe place that is still alittle bit of limbo land... A launching pad!!!
Let's step off into the abyss.....the place we have been longing to be.....
