Honey Please go back and read what you've posted to us. Look at all the things he's 'blaming' you for that he himself is doing. Have you not seen this as a main trait of abusers. Blaming the victim for their own emotional/verbal abuse? No matter what he does wrong, he turns it around on you.
Now, this is what is scaring me. His comment like "wanna bet?". That is a verbal threat...and I don't think he's saying it glibbly(sp). I think this guy is a loner for a reason. You've been with him for three years, but from your own words, you're not really with him all that much. You don't know what he's capable of, or what he might have done/or is doing when he's not in that house with you. You only have his word on alot of things.
You've moved your things in, and the house is comfortable to you, but are you willing to chance you own health/safety and your nephews by living with someone that is not emotionally committed to the relationship...and is in your own words, abusive and short-fused. Never say never about someone with those traits...you don't know how fast they can turn on you...and how they will blame it on you.
Please, please...think of yourself and your nephew and son first.and not this relationship with BF.
Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible
