What I have been dreading for months finally happened during marriage counseling (MC) this week - my W announced that she is "done" with our marriage. In fact, that morning prior to MC my W put a deposit on a apartment. This has been one hell of an month - find out she has been having an affair early in the month, we start sleeping in separate rooms in the middle of the month, and now she wants out of the house entirely (sometime in the middle of May). As one would guess I'm a wreck right now - just too much grief...way too much. You would think she would spread the blows out a little better...man I feel like crap (and our 9th anniversary is coming up in early May, right after my daughters birthday...how nice). I feel worse for the kids, they are so little, how are they going to get through this if I'm a mess? Only recourse I have is to keep on GAL and try my best to be her calm, helpful friend and father of her children. I'll probably head over to my parents this weekend to grieve and try to put my self together for the long road ahead. Only bright side is she says she is done with the OM...may be I can believe that, I don't know? I know most of you folks are going through the same thing...heaven help us.
