jks - i'm sort of feeling the same as you -very similar time frame too. and i agree with old timer and the way the text was worded.

stay strong - and it's okay to cry and feel horrible, but try to have one moment in between where you think of something that makes you feel good.

oldtimer - not trying to butt in or hijack - but since you guys are on the topic about kids meeting OP.:

my question is how can this be handled during DB'ing? do we leave it to WAS to decide on their own and not known to us when they tell kids about OP , or can it be dealt with that WAS and LBS can decide together and prepare for it?

would love to hear your opinion about this

thanks zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"