Well there are lots of ways to go about it.

One - you can ignore her.

Two - You can email her and say that you are really busy so if she needs to get the info, she needs to find another way.

Three - This seems to be a popular response on the board.

"W - I accept that you want this D. I do not. I will not stop you in filing, but I will not aide you in anyway during this process".

Yes - You're wife will most likely get angry and ANY of those responses.

Get used to it. She is all about her... anything that is not about her will upset her.

Also - Give yourself time to process everything. Start initiating the 48 hr rule to all responses.

((( )))

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.