You know Bill - I think I will look at it in that positive way.

Yes, it certainly has entered my mind if ever my WAS found this thread what I would say or feel like. I'd feel mortified initially, and then would just come clean. What else would there to be to do? But what they would do I have nooo clue - especially those venting bits - oooh, not good.

I wonder though if anyone other WAS found it - or if they are even bothered to look for it. I mean, most just want to run 1000 miles away from the spouse anyway, so I doubt they care too much. However, if there is a sensitive initial reconciliation timeframe, it could be a bit touchy.

Would love to know about that too!