A couple minutes ago H just texted me to tell me to pack warm clothes for my kids and their coats. I said what am I packing for? He said... camping.
You didn't do this, did you? He fired you as a W and wants you to do things for him?
Letting go is hard. It takes time. However once you have truly let go you will feel reborn.
As stated above, I also know what I want in a new partner. I'm not settling for cr@p, I want it all or nothing.
Take care of yourself. Have fun this weekend, try something that's uncharacteristic of yourself. Yoga class, country line dancing whatever it is start experiencing new thongs in your life.
Sometimes good bye is a second chance.
That chance may be with someone new or maybe down the road your H will realize what he threw away.
The reality of D is strong.
Hugs
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."