Holy crap. I kept expecting her to admit to cheating with your sons asking the questions, and yet, nope. MLCers never cease to amaze me.

I can't get over that you keep your cool during all this, but you know, that's what the whole DB thing is about. Keeping a lid on reacting to crazy people.

I think your sons will need this therapy if only reason the reason that so many of us did need it when we were finally hit with the full force of the MLC liars...because it's so hard to process how they can lie right to your face. Your sons I am sure would actually feel better if she "came clean" but she probably never will. They will need therapy to teach them how to handle not getting the answers they want and not getting the true sincere apology they so truly deserve.

Be proud of your boys. This is horrible for them but they have really finally understood that you were not the horrible person that she tried to make you out to be. I think it was heartbreaking to read the part where your son realized that he spent so long "hating" you. Thank goodness he understands now, but that "lost time" is also going to haunt him and he was only a victim of her insanity. I hope he does not blame himself for that.

I'll keep you guys in my thoughts.


M45
Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11
Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy
"Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying