i need to add about the phone...... i have looked at his calls in the past and he knows it. so thats what he meant by i have an agenda. he thinks i said that because i wont be able to see his calls. i thought, when he got upset, there might be some quilt on his part. but i dont know, he is a recluse but who knows. He could be wanting to talk to someone. I cant worry about that and I am not going to.
