Antlers: NOW are you going to step up to the plate and take some serious action? Someone needs to be the parent here and so far neither of you are doing it. You need to pull yourself out of "victim" mode and put on your daddy pants. It is about time.
Sorry that my posts to you seem harsh but you withdraw rather than DO anything. Your kids are getting worse by the day. I think we warned you that would happen.
But ex has just given you the opportunity to take over and fix things.
