I so badly want to tell my W (who will not work on marriage because she has 'no feelings for me') that love is not a feeling but a decision, a choice, a thought process.
Regarding the moving out: dont do it.
Read my sitch: I have moved out for 3 weeks and regret it because moving back in is so much harder ....its like you have crossed a threshold...for instance, I dont think my W will let me share the bed again.
W wants me to move out because she cant (doesnt want to leave our 2 sons).Also I work away a lot so I cant look about kids if she did move out.
I have moved out for 3 weeks to give her SPACE but its so so hard
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16