What do the kids think of their dad's affair? They are all angry. But haven't said a word to him. I think the biggest part of him hitting rock bottom is going to be when he finds out the hard way that his sons, DIL and granddaughters have no plans to ever be around OW again. EVER. They think she is crazy, and unlike me being fooled by her, none of them liked her from the start.
I just keep reminding myself he is just a puppet right now. Still a good looking guy, but not my guy. It is a little funny, my mom, sister and best friend tell me he isn't looking good. He always looks unkempt, hair too long, mustache (Goatee for awhile) all scraggily, crappy old clothes..... They all think he looks like a hick.
And I realized, it is true. He puts on his work clothes and goes to work looking nice. But comes home and puts on the same sort of clothes he has worn since he was a teen. I have to sneek in and throw away old underwear and socks.
Go figure!
Thanks Ellie for being the voice of reason. I am trying my hardest to keep my cool and to keep stepping through the hard parts.
I like Mahatmas Red Beans and Rice, use turkey sausage, onion, and red, orange and yellow peppers. I add lots of veggies to my meals, so I don't skip them! It is one of my favorite meals to make on the boat.
I found a property for $289K with 3 houses and a pool on 1.2 acres..... The kids can get on their feet, and then I can have rental property. (Or my mom....)
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
