Give her the space... don't ask where she's been. DON'T SNOOP. I know it's hard. I've been there. I found an affair a couple years ago. It ate me alive. I lived and breathed finding more evidence and proof.

I have a new situation now. There may be an affair, so I just assume there is. Confirming the affair wouldn't change much other than my own attitude and emotions.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done