yeah, i feel like i'm hanging myself with my own rope by backsliding every few days. some days there are no issues....others i get this nagging feeling that I act on. today I did that. need to really back off, give her space, and focus on me more. been away from the boards for a few days, so i was thinking that when I get that nagging feeling perhaps i'll just post here.
good luck to you as well...with so much in common, perhaps we can continue to support each other through this difficult time.