He did not choose her over you -- don't look at it that way. He cheated and lied. You absolutely cannot compete with the danger and excitement of an affair no matter how great you are. Its not about you and you cannot be compared. If you find yourself thinking that way, do your best to stop yourself

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015