Hey all, I would like everyone's thoughts on a situation I find myself in. I have been talking to my father in law, my H hasn't talked to him in years, and I'm not really sure why. His parents divorced after he and I got married. My mother in law was cheating with a married man (whose wife was dying of cancer!), looking back she was probably having a midlife crisis,but anyway. My father law has not been in good health for a few years, had a brain tumor, recently a stroke, and has been battling depression. Well I am planing on meeting him and having dinner next Saturday evening and he texted me today and told me to tell his SOB son to call him he is running out of time. So I texted him back and asked him what he meant, and I tried to call him, but he didn't answer, so I left a message saying he scared me and asked what is going on. Well he just texted me back and said he would call me soon but his health is going down hill FAST. So after I talk to him and get the low down I don't know what to do.... do I talk to my H about it, or just give his dad his phone number and hope H answers, or at the very least listens to the message? I'm at a loss, I mean, H already views me as the enemy, so I don't know what to do or say. Also about a week before bomb drop he made a comment that he knew he needed to contact his father...... I think it will be a big mistake and push him further into crazytown if he doesn't reconcile with his father and work out whatever issues he has with him, cause clearly there are plenty..... so what does everyone think? Do I talk to him about it or just give his dad his number and let it up to them??
