Been away for a few days and wanted to give an update....I suppose I backslid a bit today, but am hopeful I can regain ground.

W went out w/friends last night and I barraged with questions today (who, what, when, etc..). A slight regression, but I want to trust her. Need to step back from all of this and continue to focus on me. She's so angry with me, which I guess is something instead of being indifferent. Says she can't even think about working on the M or R right now.

Suppose I need to go back and re-read DB and 37 rules and apply them all. Some I am applying, others not so much. Perhaps its best that we start out at being friends first? She's given me the blessing of time, and I guess that is something to be thankful for.

Any guidance from vets or otherwise is much appreciated.


Me (34), W(30)
3 kids (7, 5, 1.5)
Married 9 years