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Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2240955 04/26/12 04:29 PM
Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,877 VA A adinva Member
adinva Member A Joined: Sep 2011 Posts: 2,877 VA	what are legal grounds in your state? Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. adinva #2240958 04/26/12 04:32 PM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert L labug Member
labug Member L Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 9,676 Sonoran Desert	AZ-no fault. I could mail it in. Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13 Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. labug #2241012 04/26/12 08:40 PM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375 C cat04 Member
cat04 Member C Joined: May 2009 Posts: 2,375	Monkey, I am unfamiliar with the laws where you are, however, I do know that other states in that area have made divorce much harder in recent years. I guess my question to you are... How would you benefit by dragging it out? What "man" would you be showing her and the world if you do that? How does making it more difficult reflect the man that you aspire to be in comparison to the man that you were? Do the words in the petition really matter all that much? "Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. cat04 #2241019 04/26/12 08:59 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS G Grmpy_Mnky OP Member
OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	Thats just my point. I do not want to draw it out. Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2241024 04/26/12 09:10 PM
Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 288 B Broken74 Member
Broken74 Member B Joined: Jan 2012 Posts: 288	Hey Grmpy, just wanted to drop in and say keep your chin up man! me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Broken74 #2241030 04/26/12 09:27 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS G Grmpy_Mnky OP Member
OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	Thanks bro! Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2241031 04/26/12 09:37 PM
Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 68 Hillsboro,Or. S Shaky Member
Shaky Member S Joined: Oct 2011 Posts: 68 Hillsboro,Or.	I would imagine that only people that benefit dragging it out is the lawyers, f-that. Shaky M 42 W 41 S 10 D 7 M 15 Years T 20 Years Divorce busted

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Shaky #2263430 07/18/12 04:23 PM
Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS G Grmpy_Mnky OP Member
OP Grmpy_Mnky Member G Joined: Dec 2011 Posts: 524 MS	Well, it has been some time... I'm divorced now and the "drama" has come to an end. I am profoundly happy and thankful for that. I am also profoundly thankful for those of you that stood by me on those "dark nights". To those of you just arrivng...hang in there and listen. You will get through this and life will once again be good! Peace Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13 Dogs still like bacon...a lot.

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. Grmpy_Mnky #2263454 07/18/12 05:20 PM
Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land ~ ~ kd ~ Member
~ kd ~ Member ~ Joined: Mar 2011 Posts: 4,866 Likes: 1 Canoe'k-land	It is good to hear the drama is over. Keep us up to date if anything changes between the two of you, if you are willing. It would be interesting to know if your W's behaviour changes in the coming months. And yes... dogs REALLY do like bacon... I think they might be on to something...

Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. ~ kd ~ #2263486 07/18/12 06:29 PM
Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 951 S sayitaintso Member
sayitaintso Member S Joined: Nov 2011 Posts: 951	I saw Grmpy_Mnky on the home page and I was like whaaatttttt. Good to see you back and drama free. Me- 34 W-33 S15 S10 S6 Married- 11 Together- 18 Bomb- 6-2011 WAW moves out- 8-2011 "Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley

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