Learning as I go

[tested metal]

Yeah there is a 1 year restraining order between W and OM. The last time I talked to W when she spewed at me because of my legal response to her filing, she told me that she was going to make sure that "SOB" is going to prison. I am pretty sure they are through. My guess is she probably found someone else and he might have found out about it. I don't think she will stay single for very long. I don't think she can handle being alone.

I did confront her when she spewed at me by letting her know that I knew about the incident and that she put D1 at harm. I let her know that I am concerned for both their safety, but W is a big girl and needs to fend for herself if she is going to hook up with D-bags. She hung up sobbing saying "I'm a good mother" and "I have to be the primary parent because North Dakota is a Mom state."

As for alcohol, they both drank a lot, but there was no intoxication mentioned on the police report. My L and I have copies of the report, which nicely states that they have been living together since Christmas; he hit her and interrupted an emergency 911 call; he then pinned her to the ground; somehow she got away and locked herself in D1 room with D1 sleeping in it and made the call @ 11:59 pm.

My L said W pretty much sank herself with this new information.

As for myself I am learning more at my new job and enjoying the hours. I am slowing making my apartment a home and taking my time unpacking. I realize that I am procrastinating with unpacking because I am having a hard time letting go and accepting. But it is getting easier day by day.

I noticed this last week (almost as soon as I got a L) that women have been hitting on me like crazy. I still report that I am married and would never date anyone until D was final and I was ready, which will be awhile. It is nice to have the ego stroked though.