All in all, if that were me, I'd feel pretty good about that conversation... I mean, feeling good without EXPECTATIONS and all that, but really, I think you handled that REALLY well, and her reaction certainly didn't seem overtly negative...
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12