Stop right there, at the part where you take care of him because it's the right thing to do. Don't get into his mind and wonder if he's taking advantage or doesn't REALLY love you. That's the part you've got to put off till later. For YOU, not for him.
See, you can be a wonderful wife and be there for him and worry later about kicking him out, or you can be a wonderful wife and be there for him and feel resentful and used the whole time. And the only difference...is in your head.
Let that ^^^^ sink in Ro. This is very wise counsel!
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It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
