Just like there was only two people who had any real, valid opinion or contribution during the break down of the M...
There are only two people who have any real, valid opinion or contribution to the R...
While the info that you got from this friend may give you some insight... THEY do not know what your H was feeling, they were only hearing what ever words he chose to allow out of his mouth and any actions that he may have done...
Remember the "believe none of what they say and only 50% of what they do" mantra?
Your friend has no idea the truth of that... so what your friend is doing is only one, possibly very tiny aspect of what was going on for your H...
Understand that when an accident happens there are a million viewpoints and those aren't just from the witnesses who were actually AT the scene...
It is quite possible that your H wants damage control and does not want you to be hurt by anything in the past... and the past has no bearing on what he wants now...
As much as you will get intel from others...
The only two people who are important here are the two of you and the only important time here is the present...
