Originally Posted By: figgeroni
stop repeating that you love her and you want your marriage to work...

she knows this

you are pressuring her

back off and find what you are passionate about...

we know her passions are politics so research that a bit and then develop your own more as well

become more interesting to yourself...in doing so you may just become more interesting to her


What else can I say when she wants to have a conversation to tell me she has no feelings? Do I implore and ask what makes her happy? Ask in what ways she likes to be shown love? Or do I shy away from the conversation... It's so hard since I don't want to appear needy. I feel so confused during the conversations.


M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done