Wen,

Just time for a quick reply. I am sorry that you are going through this.

Listen to the girls. They are giving you solid advice about how to protect yourself financially.

As far as how to protect your heart?

That is a harder question.

Please take time for yourself. Don't allow your anger and hurt to run this train.

Remember that your H isn't the man that you married and he may never be that man or anyone similar again.

One of my best friends from these boards has a saying...

The only way to do it is through it...

That includes feeling all of your feelings and dealing with them instead of stuffing them down.

You are strong enough to handle all of this.

(((hugs)))


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox