We had some documents sitting on the table. There were three things in a pile: 1. results of our personality tests from her therapist. 2. Our "homework" to from our MC to help us start talking better. 3. A list of activities we can easily do together to help reconnect.
She threw them all away.
M34 W35 S5 S2 T10 M6 on/off over the years including her A Recently- Nov 2015 bomb Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling Feb bomb March-April Reconciling May - bomb Mid-May I tell her I'm done