I am using an old Air Force term for this thread. Not Repairable at This Station (NRTS) was how they used to tag equipment that had to go back to a more sophisticated repair facility for repair.
I'm kinda feeling that way about me and my situation. My H brought me all the updated papers to take to the lawyer, happily and quickly. It hurt me to the core, and I just thanked him and put on my yoga smile.
I feel like I'm between a rock and a hard place. If I stand still he will sell the house and I won't have a clue what I'm to do next. He so just wants to be done and gone and move on to his new happy place.
If I press forward, I'm getting divorced and most likely moving away. But I need, right now, to have a plan. And the plan seems to be sorting out the legalities.
So I feel I can't repair me at this station. So I need to move on. This isn't what I want, but I also don't want to be the one being stupid and winding up holding the short end of the stick.
My sister and OW are in a battle of silliness on FB. I have asked my sister to quit engaging her, that it is better if OW has the fun target of my H for her crazyness. Since my sister thinks he is a bum who I should drop, that probably won't happen.
My sister posted an obscure video called "Cheater, Cheater" which is pretty funny. OW reposted it, and basically made the comment that he had cheated on me before, so it was okay he cheated with her. And one of her friends wrote a comment that told OW to "Hang in there." ??????????
Then OW posted a photo of her scales at 125 complaining that she can't gain back the 7 pounds she needs to gain. (Poor, Poor OW)
And H just asked me did I want to watch TV with him.... we have the grandkids, granddog and it is mayhem here!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
