The lease is for a year (they don't have many short-term or month-to-months around here) so if she figures out for herself that she wants to try and come home (assuming I'm willing to let her) then she'd have to break the lease and lose the security deposit.
Great! you at least have a year for you to find out who you are and what your marriage means to you without your W in your house telling you how much she doesn't want to be there...
Is this good for your M?
I know you think not but it is what she wants right now, so what are you going to do?
Is this the end?
What are you prepared to do for your M if you are not guaranteed it can be saved?
How much did your vows mean to you?
You said forever. Or did you say forever UNLESS you sign a lease on a place for a year to live away from me?
Her choices. Her actions. Right now.
What will you do in reaction to them? Give up?
How will it feel letting someone make your choice for you?
Is she choosing for you by getting her own place? is that the end?
Is Hurt going to wear that badge into the future?
What do you want man?
You will be hurt84 if you allow someone to make your choices for you.
First you gotta figure out how bad you want to be here.
Here is a journey and hard work. And a world of hurt, Hurt.
What say you?
It seems your insecurity is in the security deposit...
Consider it gone if you choose to be a man comitted to that possible outcome.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
