W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore-P3

[Snowman]

Well this is what I get for saying nothing new on the D front. I got an email from my lawyer with updates papers, oh joy. I think I'm going to ask that I be allowed to short sale my home and be done with the whole thing since my W and her L are being so kind to award me a house that is $50k under water and somehow are demanding I refinance so she can be taken off the loan, fat chance.

My W emailed me about getting her auto policy and what is the log-in info for our cell phone. I gave her our insurance agents contact info and informed her that she could setup her own log-in for our cell phone and that I will be switching carriers next month. This cell phone question of course got my cogs running and I gave in to temptation and check our records which I have not done for quite a while. You can probably guess what I saw, constant calling and texting to numerous men. In fact most of the phone records show contact with various men close and far which makes me think she is online dating or otherwise. Anyway I know I shouldn't have done it but my W is on the look for the next best thing and I will let her find it. She continues to live in a very open marriage and does not care. I need to move on.

SAIS-Thanks for the support and I know the feeling of getting papers, not fun. Every time I get my updated papers in my email its a little jab to the heart.

Chatterbug-I kept the day she was trying to get so we are good there. I had been recording everything for quite some time but I have slacked off the last little while. I need to get back to work on that effort.

I agree being compassionate when OM(s) are in the picture does drive me crazy. I laugh that you use the bank manager example as I work in the banking but not in a branch.

Thanks for the support and good advice, I needed it today as it was a rough day at work and at home, one of these days were nothing goes right.