I assume from your signature that you and W started piecing and then at some point decided to separate. Was that your decision or hers? What happened?
Accuray, that is correct, we did have a brief stage of R. however I didn't have a solid plan for recovery. After 4 dates she told me she "wasn't feeling it". from there it took another 10 months for her to decide to D.
Our D was just finalized this past February.
From what a friend told me, she is trying to have a R with a 24 yo from work where they can't be seen together b/c dating people at work is grounds for termination.
He treats her like sh!t, he's 24 and goes out with his friends when he wants to.
She trying to control him and she's being clingy. Instant Attraction killer btw. She has done zero work on herself and it shows in all her Rs, even with her family.
So now she's in the same spot with her current fling. no lessons learned. So now since she has not learned anything she's unhappy with her current reality and she gave up her family and a guy who wanted to make things work.
At this point, I know I could "win" her back. She reaches out to me in quit ways.
That's a choice a struggle with now a days.
There's so much more to my sitch. you can go back and read from my history.
I'm not sure
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
