I have the same concerns and told myself that I would still give her space, not call, text or e-mail her. I asked what I could do and she said "be there for her.". Told her I would be. She told me that when something is going on in her life she likes to be left alone, but likes talking to me.
I will keep doing what I have been. This is something I not been through so I think the best thing to do is just listen.
