Sad in WI,

That certainly complicates things, but be very careful. Continue to assume your W wants space. It will be easy to use this as an excuse to "demonstrate your love" and pursue.

There's nothing wrong with being caring and supportive, but there's a line to walk there. You might say to W "I understand this is hard for you, and I also understand that you want space. What can I do to help you through this, if anything?"

Listen to what she says, and try not to overdo it.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015