YES! Time to give up all the pipe dreams and focus on you! Your expectations are your worst enemy. Expectations lead to disappointment. Disappointment leads to sadness. Sadness makes people want to avoid you.
Focus on what YOU are doing and the progress YOU are making with your improvements and expect nothing better than what you're getting now. If you can do that, you'll only be pleasantly surprised if things improve versus being continually disappointed if they don't.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015