I feel the same way when reading/re-reading the book you suggested, What Women Want Men to Know...man, if I had only known...
But....if what I have learned here and elsewhere is true, is that this would have happened anyway, the root was planted long before we came into the picture.
We know better now whatever lessons we have learned on this journey, and continue to learn.
I get stuck in the same places for the same reasons you do...and am still trying to find the answers you are looking for...I wish I had those answers, I wish I had complete trust in the universe, God, myself, etc. Maybe it is a continuous process, never fully at 100% complete...idk.
For myself, maybe it's like patience (which I am not very good at either), one minute/day/week/month/year at a time.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
