Thks Say - you message yesterday made my day. Like you I had a tough day yesterday and received another letter from my H letter further negiotiating. It was a real bummer. I took it pretty hard and had to walk away at work for 20 minutes and cry.

I recovered this morning and had a great morning with the girls. H came to pick them up at 12noon and we spent 1/2 hr hanging on our front stoop with the girls. Its was nice. I had a few opportunities to validate him and I did.

One weird thing happen. The neighbors parents walked by and I said hello and asked about how their grandson was, he has a brain tumor. He is not doing well:( After they leave H says that he forgot that the little boy had a brian tumor. How do you forget that??


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13