I think its great that your H is actually working on his feelings. Obviously he surpressed his emotions for years but that letter is a start in him getting his feelings out. Give him the space he needs to get through the feelings he buried. Atleast he is working on them.
Is he in any individual consulting?? Keep going to the other C together even if its only to talk about moving.
I see a lot of hope. He has a lot to work through but he is admits that he burying his feelings that is a huge first step.
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---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13