Go easy on yourself, order take out.

So great that your bought some new clothes. Dont wait for a night out to wear you new clothes find a way to wear them on a regular day, maybe the top with jeans. Pretend you are headed somewhere later.

I think next time your H offers to buy you something you should take him up on it. I think taking him up on any offer is a form a validate.

Maybe think about what you can do to make your home even more homey when H returns. Nothing to different, but a good cleaning or softer lighting, subtle things to contrast cold hotel rooms.

Hang in there, you are doing great.

Loved the cheer AprilT posted


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13