Thank you, gr8. Man, I would love a fast forward button right now...

Btw, you never said if your ex-W had a PA. I'm just curious to know how similar the situations are...

Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.