I've been thinking about the past few conversations my wife and I had about "us."

I've listened. I took notes afterwards trying to put the pieces together. But the one thing I haven't done is talk. I simply repeat that I love her and that I want our marriage to work.

I'm afraid of opening up and appearing needy. Can I ask questions? What should I ask? Do I flat out ask what makes her happy? Do I push for a "love languages" type discussion? I'm terrified of being needy and pushing her further away.

M34 W35
S5 S2
T10 M6
on/off over the years including her A
Recently-
Nov 2015 bomb
Nov 2015-Feb 2016 Reconciling
Feb bomb
March-April Reconciling
May - bomb
Mid-May I tell her I'm done