Yes your W is behaving in a cold and is seemingly uncaring. But for you to rise above this mess, you need to detach your emotions from this sitch and be strong for your children. If she offers you the chance to spend more time with the kids, take it gladly and be on your way. Don't linger because you know that your emotions will catch up with you.

Your best opportunity to get your W back (and there is no guarantee at all) is to always be upbeat around your W and build a life for yourself. When the emotions start to get the best of you, you need to be on your way, pronto!

I know this is extremely difficult for you, LH. But you are not alone, we are all going through the same thing, though some are further along than others. Life will eventually get better. You just need to ride this thing out. Re-read some of the excellent advice you have been given and try to get your head together.

Hang in there!


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife