No progress or talk on the D for quite sometime it feels like. I don't know what to think of my situation at this point but I'm just continuing to detach and GAL as much as I can. Things here and there get me upset but doing better day by day. My S misses his mommy more and more and asks more and more as he nears 3 years old but I'm getting through it. I have read many other posts and taken solace in other people's stitches. I have grown a lot in this process and learned a lot about myself. Not sure where this journey is going but I know the point of the journey is to improve me.
I'm trying to be compassionate but not a doormat at the same time. Tough line to walk.
Hey Snow- I'm glad you and your family had a great expericence at his first game. Definitely cherish those good times.
I'm feeling very similar to your words above except I just received formal separation papers from w's L.
GAL'ing and doing my best to detach are my primary goals and I think it is the best prescription for us at this time in our sitch's.
Compassion vs. doormat is definitely a tough line to walk and I struggle with that as well.
Keep on keeping on and know that you are not alone.
