you are so lucky that you found this place so soon after your separation. yes, quit pursuing right this very hot minute.

a lot of us didn't find DB for months - take advantage of that and just stop now - you have to 'act as if' until it becomes more natural. you can weep and cry later on your own and come here and vent

glad the quote helped:)

zig

ps i better start taking my own advice here!!

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"