Zig, AliSuddenly is a master at keeping resentment/ frustration out of her sitch.
She radiates unconditional love and hangs in there through thick and thin, so i think it will be worth the read for you.
I haven't even finished it myself as there are so many threads over the 16 or so months that her journey took.
There is also a fb page under her db name so you can see pics of them both.
Thinking of you, and yes, our Hs seem still to be on the same temporal path - i'm getting some signs that he's stepping back a bit from the nastiness, but still getting insane convos.
