thanks NLW - that is so sweet of you - are you having what feels like insane conversations with your WAS in the same way i am?
i'll go read, now.
i've had the feeling that you guys were waiting for me to come back here - and the support i feel from all of you is heart warming.
i feel so self-involved now - and i know i have to stop being that - need togo read other's threads and be in a good place again.
i'm working on and recognizing my own issues with self-involvement right now. can't help thinking that am i being so self involved during this sitch that i can't hear h pleading with me that he has nothing to give me right now..
maybe reading this thread will help me get things in more perspective. resentment and frustration are looming their ugly heads within me now, and that's not the way to go about changing things
thanks NLW
(((( )))) zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"