It's been a long time since I had those feeling when we made the exchanges. My ex was so into family that I couldn't understand why/how she could ever do something like D. U Our sitches are so similar in this aspect. The pain does resonate at this stage. In time the exchanges do get better. What work for me to have her second guess her decision was durin the exchanges I would update her what was going on with the kids. All informative stuff. I didn't have negative feelings when I dropped them off. When she dropped them off I had uncharacteristic music for me playing in the backround. I had pics of the kids hanging in view and I always looked and smelled good.
But the thing I really believe that brought her back was the fact she found out I was happy and " dating".
That's a whole other topic here. But it worked for me.
continue to TCB with the kids and protect yourself financially.
Let him really "feel" what life without you feels like.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
